Here are some more tips on how to move on
after an affair:
Be active in your parish church. Join church
organizations and activities like charity work.
This way, you get closer to God while you
help others in your own little way. Similarly, join other socio-civic
organizations if you get the opportunity to like the Rotary Club.
Start your own business even if you don’t
need the money, or the potential income is loose change compared to what you
make in the office.
Discover or develop your other talents like
singing or dancing. Do this whenever you start getting depressed over the past,
or are simply bored with nothing else to do. And who knows, your other talents
might open new doors for you with regular practice.
Start playing your favorite sport regularly,
and push yourself to the limit. Read and learn more about it to enhance your
skill. Go out with friends more often than before, BUT NOT to the point of
endangering your health.
Welcome new acquaintances, especially
admirers, for what they are, and not based on the pain you’re suffering or the
skepticism that it had triggered in your mind. New faces, new friends and
renewed interest in people will make it a lot easier for you to forget.
Make up for lost time with the family when
you and your ex were still together. Join them more often in outings or bonding
moments. Go all out in helping solve family problems.
If you have the budget, go to places you’ve
never been to, locally or abroad. New surroundings to explore and new things to
learn are also very good medicines against loneliness. And as I’ve written in an
earlier blog, PRAY. Pray hard for spiritual strength and guidance. Believe me,
God WILL LISTEN! 30
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