Here’s a reminder to all you ladies out there:
If you’ll have sex with your crush or secret love without any commitment,
DO NOT EXPECT any positive, emotional reaction from him. It will be the BIGGEST
MISTAKE you’ll ever make.
Trust me, his immediate concern will be “If you can do it casually with him,
there’s no guarantee you’re not the same with others.
DOUBTS about your DECENCY FOLLOW. When a guy doubts a woman’s
personality, automatically he wouldn’t respect her as much as he should.
There goes your dream of a relationship, a serious relationship.
A girl from Quezon City who once asked me for advice had this
rather traumatic experience: Her long-time crush finally asked her out, and she
readily agreed without thinking. They ended up fucking without being lovers.
After that, the guy began avoiding her like a plague.
A personal case I know has this girl from Makati who agreed to a fuck-buddy setup with
the man of her dreams, hoping he’d eventually formalize a relationship.
It went on for several months, until the guy started saying he’s getting
busier with work. She eventually found out that actually, the guy was preparing
for his wedding to another woman.
So don’t ever have the delusion that a guy will fall in love with you if
you readily give in to his sexual demands.
Sex may be as normal as coffee and donuts in this promiscuous world we
live in today. But believe me, girls, a quick and easy fuck IS NOT among the
top criteria of us guys in searching for women worthy of true love.
Among others, we will always go for a kind-hearted woman with VALUES.
We prefer women who prioritize God, family and work or profession over
guys at any given time. We want ladies with ambition and the initiative to
achieve it.
And not girls who don’t even dream of a bright future, or aspire for one and
are too lazy to do anything to even move closer to it.
Most of all, us guys will only seriously fall in love, with and stick to
just one girl, if she is HONEST AND FAITHFUL. This is where easy and instant
sex can spoil everything, ladies.
Bottom line, ladies: What you look for in us guys are basically the same
things we look for in you.
Believe me, sex is only SECONDARY. You’ll NEVER FIND TRUE LOVE if your
mindset will be the contrary. 30
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