HOW TO MOVE ON AFTER A RELATIONSHIP!

Moving on after a relationship is one of the toughest stages anyone of us can go through at any given time in our lives.

 

Especially if the separation was not mutually agreed upon, or was caused by factors beyond the control of both partners and came at a most unexpected time.

 

Here are some excerpts from a blog I had written way back last year. I hope these could help ease the pain of grieving hearts out there.

 

First and foremost, open your eyes WIDER and START LOOKING AROUND!  Believe me, God allowed the relationship to end because He has a better plan for you.  

Pray hard for spiritual guidance. Ask the Lord to lead you to where He wants you to go, to what He wants you to do, or to whom He wants you to meet.

Return everything that your former sweetheart has given you. If he or she won’t accept it, burn it. Or donate it tto the Church or to the poor if you think somebody can have better use of it.

Then, STOP GOING TO, or even passing by, all the places the two of you used to visit. If you hear your theme song, switch stations or better yet, turn off the radio or the TV.

Enroll in a gym even if you’re not overweight. 

If you can’t afford it, start jogging or walking several kilometers daily and exercising at home. Push yourself to the limit, until you’re too tired to even think about anything or anybody.

Drown yourself in work. Go on overtime as often as you can. If there are seminars, be the first to volunteer, especially if it could increase your chances for a promotion or pay raise.

You will be too busy to think about him or her, but will LEARN MORE, and eventually EARN MORE.  Not a bad alternative, right?

Lastly, start going to HOUSES OF CHARITY -- homes for the aged or the disabled, street kids and unwed mothers and orphanages.

You will see a lot more people in far worse conditions than yours but life goes on for them. If they can move on, so can you.

As what I had stated before in love blog, I will be happy to accept and give my suggestions on queries on love problems from anyone.

Advanced happy holidays, guys, 30