When cheating strikes a relationship,
the immediate question of the grieving partner to the other is “Why?”
Here are nine common, and often
overlooked, reasons:
NEGLECT – One partner loses time for
the other because of work and the pursuit of his or her ambition.
FINANCE AND LAZINESS – The man isn’t
earning and is not doing anything to increase his income.
VERBAL AND PHYSICAL ABUSE – One
partner insults and curses, and in some cases hits, the other for
even the slightest mistakes, or limitations even if he or she is helpless about
it.
VICES -- One partner won’t stop his or
her vices even though there’s no extra money for these and the household needs
– food, bills to pay or school expenses for the kids – are already being
affected.
UNSTOPPABLE INFIDELITY –- One partner
won’t stop cheating despite the other’s pleas. So, either out of revenge or
loneliness, the other partner starts entertaining admirers from the opposite
sex.
ONE-WAY AFFAIR – One partner has turned
out to be a dictator on the other – the relationship runs only on his or her
terms and desires, and he or she is always, and the only one who is right. The
other partner is always wrong.
SEXUAL INCOMPETENCE – One partner
can’t satisfy the other sexually, and is not doing anything about it even if
the problem has been categorically revealed by his or her lover.
LACK OF AMBITION – One partner has no
plans or dreams for a prosperous and happy future and lives by the day. Or he
or she has an ambition but is not working for it, giving the impression to the
other partner that the relationship will not grow and go anywhere.
IMMATURITY – One partner doesn’t think
and act according to age, and doesn’t listen to the other partner’s pleadings
to start growing up mentally and behaving properly.
So how can you prevent your partner
from cheating on you? JUST DO THE REVERSE OF ALL OF THESE. 30
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