15 SIGNS YOUR LOVER'S ONLY AFTER SEX

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Ms. JG of Pasig thinks her boyfriend is only after sex. Her boyfriend is demanding more and more fucking as days go by. She’s asking for tips on how to find out if she’s correct.

More often than not, he talks about sex. He always injects sex into your conversation, even though it’s unrelated to the topic.

Your boyfriend threatens to break up with you if you won’t give in to his lust, while

badgering you with the cliché “Kung talagang mahal mo ko, papayag ka sa gusto ko (If you really love me, you’ll make love to me).”

After the first time, he CATEGORICALLY DEMANDS for sex when he’s hot, regardless of your condition or mood or priorities for the day.

For him, all your dates must end up in bed, and there had better be one hell of a reason for him to agree to a postponement.

If there’s no assurance, or possibility, that your date will end in a fuck, you’ll need a miracle to make him agree to go out. Worse, he’ll ask you to take along somebody else instead.

If you refuse his sexual demand, he’s not available or capable of anything else for the rest of the day and suddenly remembers he has something to do or to attend to.

He’s colder than ice or more irritable than a pre-menopausal lady in the days following your rejection of his fuck request.

He first asks if you’re alone before he goes to your home.

He wants a schedule of when you’re alone at home, or the days when everybody else in the family will be on holiday or out-of-town trips and will be gone for days.

Even if you say you’re dead tired from work or school, or have something to finish, he’d rather try to turn you on first before asking you what’s up.

He starts getting colder and colder after the first, second or third sexual encounter.

The time he spends with you is getting shorter and shorter. From being his top priority  before, he’d rather now be with his gang first than with you.

His paglalambing (sweetness) – holding your hand, putting an arm around you, giving you a hug every now and then – is vanishing faster than crushed ice.

He has resumed socializing with women without informing you.

Most of all, you’ll start getting word from friends that he has been disowning you as his sweetheart whenever he meets someone new or flirts with other women.

Bottom line, ladies: The moment you see even one of these signs in your man after going to bed with him, confront him. If he can’t give a convincing justification, BREAK OFF with him, IMMEDIATELY.

In love, follow your heart, but use your head. 30

MALACANANG'S DIRTY TRICKS STARTING NEXT WEEK

A Malacanang insider has just revealed this to me:

Starting next week, we will be flooded, as in drowned, in non-stop ‘pa-pogi’ press releases by PNoy’s government on the following subjects:

Billions and billions of supposed fund releases for various infrastructure projects

Left and right approval of purportedly pro-poor programs like food generation and job creation through left and right approval of projects pending since PNoy took over as president

Supposed accomplishments, big and negligible, of all government agencies which will be played up to the hilt in both print and broadcast media

Multi-billion projects and plans for the future by Pnoy, and his senatorial bets if they get elected

Revival of old or long-decided cases against perceived enemies of Pnoy, especially former President Gloria Macapagal-Arroyo (GMA) and former Chief Justice Renato Corona

New cases or accusations, no matter how VULGARLY ILLOGICAL or senseless, against the perceived political foes

The Malacanang insider told me that the media barrage will be so INTENSE  that PNoy and his tribe WILL NOT TOUCH on issues damaging to their administration like the Sabah crisis and the veto of the magna Carta for the Por.

The idea, the insider said, is for the people to hear or read nothing but the ‘pa-pogi’ of Pnoy  until they get deaf to it and, even subconsciously, accept it as the truth.

“Like what you had written before, PNoy knows the truth that surveys claiming his senatorial bets are leading are nothing but lies. Unless they control or divert the public ire, PNoy knows they’re headed for a humiliating defeat in the elctions,” the insider told me.

Once this happenesa, boys and girls, I only have one question:

KAYO BA, MAGPAPALOKO SA MALACANANG? AKO HINDI. Tulad na rin ng nasabi ko na, ang magpapabola, walang karapatang magreklamo pag lalong hihirap ang buhay. 30

DESPERATE FACE-SAVING GIMMICK BY PNOY

I see three revelations in PNoy’s plan to declare a state of emergency in Mindanao to solve the power crisis

First: It’s a CHEAP, VULGAR and BRAINLESS political gimmick.

The Mindanao power crisis has been crippling the region for years. A summit to address it had been even held (last year if I’m correct).

But NOTHING HAPPENED. The crisis did not ease, it WORSENED.

And now that it’s election time, PNoy himself is talking about acting personally on the problem. ALMOST THREE YEARS in office and it’s only now that he’s taking a direct hand.

HIindi noong kauupo pa lamang niya bilang Pangulo, noong WALANG ELEKSIYON at WALA SIYANG MGA KANDIDATO. Ano pala, kung gayon, ang ginawa niya para malutas ang problema?

MAY GINAWA BA SIYA?

Second: The planned state of emergency proves that PNoy and his boys are aware of the anger of Mindanao residents over their MISERABLE handling of the Sabah crisis, and the looming HUMILIATING DEFEAT that their candidates might suffer.

Kailangan nila ng  matinding ‘pa pogi’ sa mga taga-Mindanao para mabawasan ang galit ng mga ito sa kaniya., para hindi madamay ang mga kandidato nila.

Because if this was not the case, then PNoy WOULD NOT bother to personally take over to solve the power crisis, as what he had done since he assumed the presidency.

Third: The planned state of emergency proves that PNoy had LIED to Mindanao residents  with his ‘EMPTY promise to the people “Kayo ang boss ko.”

Mayroon ba namang boss na halos TATLONG TAONG HNDI TINUTULUNGAN sa problema at kung hindi pa mag-eeleksiyon ay HINDI PERSONAL na aalalayan at tutulungan?

And for those who will defend PNoy by saying that projects were done and action taken, be sure to SPECIFY and EXPLAIN the following: What projects or actions and WHY were these NOT ENOUGH?

I dare say it’s not enough because if it were, then the Mindanao power crisis would have been solved already,, substantially if not totally.

Pero MAY KRISIS pa rin.

Sa mga kapatid natin sa Mindanao, gustong lutuin ni PNoty anf inyong pagiisip sa sarili n’yong mantika. 30

 

HUWAG KAYONG PABOLA SA FITCH INVESTMENT GRADE

Tulad ng dapat asahan, binobomba na ng PNoy government ang media tungkol sa investment grade na binigay ng international credit rating company na Fitch Ratings.

HUWAG KAYONG PADADALA, mga kababayan. WALA pang dapat IKATUWA O IPAGSAYA.

For the simple reason that the investments inflow which the PNoy government says can be expected from the investment grade rating ARE NOT HERE, YET. And they CAN’T TELL, even tentatively, when these investments can be expected.

Meaning, it can come tomorrow, next month or next year or in 2016. As in, God knows when. So don’t be as excited as Pnoy and his boys want you to be, with their media barrage.

Pnoy and his boys said, among others, that the investment grade will translate to lower interest rates and greater access to cheaper funds. But they can’t even give speculative figures.

So for all we know, the interest rates may be not as low as we would want or expect.  Or access to funds may not be as easy as they picture it to be.

Kaya isipin ninyo, mga kababayan: Ano ang DAPAT IPAGDIWANG, O IPAGSAYA?  Bakit ngayon pa lang ay kailangang maging excited na tayo. At bumiulib ng lubusan kay PNoy at sa mga bata  niya?

Even if you look at PNoy’s press statement, it’s a TOTALLY GENERIC, SELF-SERVING ‘PA-POGI’ reaction.

NO SPECIFICS whatsoever.

PNoy and his boys claim TOTAL, ABSOLUTE CREDIT for the iinvestment grade, citing, among others, sound fiscal management and purportedly integrity-based leadership.

But they CAN’T POINT OUT EVEN A SINGLE measure they’ve done, or had conceived or developed as their ORIGINAL IDEA, to justify their arrogance.

For the record, I’m not belittling the investment grade rating by Fitch.

I have written this piece to HELP ENLIGHTEN our  people on why we should not be BRAINWASHED into adoring or giving full support ot PNoy following the Fitch assessment.

Sa hirap ng buhay ngayon, hindi ‘pa-pogi’ press releases ang kailangan natin. Hindi walang katapusang DALDAL o SPEKULASYON. AKTWAL NA AKSYON ang kailangan natin, ang makapagpapagaan ng hirap na finaranas natin.

Hindi kapal ng mukha o panguuto ng iba.  30

SUKDULANG KAPAL NG MUKHA NI LACIERDA

Talaga palang SUKDULAN SA KAPAL ANG MUKHA at ang KAYABANGAN ntong si Presidential Spokesman Edwin Lacierda.

In lifting the Philippines to investment grade, international credit agency Fitch Ratings categorically declared in a statement that: “Improvements in fiscal management begun under President (Gloria Macapagal) Arroyo (GMA) have made general government debt dynamics more resilient to shock.”

But Lacierda, who said he’s quoting Finance Secretary Cesar Purisima who had served under Arroyo as Trade and Finance secretary, countered that the previous administration had contributed to the decline of the country's credit rating. For the record:

FIrst: It was Fitch who granted the investment grade, NOT PURISIMA OR LACIERDA. 

Pero tingnan ninyo, mga kababayan, MAS MARUNONG PA  si Lacierda sa Fitch. At pati na si Purisima, kung tutoo man na sinabi niya  ang mga binitiwang pahayag ni Lacierda.

Second: Lacierda is a lawyer. Anybody correct me if I’m wrong, he is NOT AN ECONOMIST.  

He, is also NOT A SPOKESMAN of Fitch. Therefore, he (and Purisima if he indeed spoke to him) has NO MORAL OR PROFESSIONAL RIGHT to BELIE, TWIST OR INTERPRET Fitch’s statement to their own liking.

Kaya’t WALA SIYANG PROPESYONAL NA KARAPATAN na magkomento ng derechahan pagdating sa ekonomiya. Lalo pa’t WALA siyang MAIPAPAKITANG EBIDENSIYA at base lamang ito sa sinabi ng iba.

Maliban na lamang kung aaminin ni Lacierda na likas lamang siyang TSISMOSO o UTU-UTO, na sigurado din akong hindi mangyayari.

Third: It’s an undisputed fact that during the world financial crisis which struck  several years ago (2007 if I’m right) during the Arroyo presidency, the Philippines DID NOT GO INTO RECESSION.

COMMON SENSE will tell, even to a high school kid, that the opposite should have happened if the country’s investment image was on a decline.

The United States went into recession, along with several other countries. Purisima knows this. He was a FORMER ARROYO Cabinet member. Shame on him if he will have the stomach to say he did not.

Fourth: Lacierda claimed that when Arroyo “inherited the presidency we were one notch below investment grade. Since then, it went down."

Pero kahit GA-BUHOK na ebidensiya, WALA SIYANG MAIPAKITA.

Fifth: Laicerda boasted that:  “It was only in the time of President Aquino when we inherited the government that it was upgraded to BB+ and today, we have been upgraded to investment grade status."

Again, Lacierda could NOT CITE EVEN A SINGLE example of what their government had done to achieve the investment grade.

Derechahang inakusahan si GMA, WALA NAMANG EBIDENSIYA. Puro daldal  LANG. NAGYABANG na ang gobyerno lamang nila ang nakapagpataasng investment grade, mas LALONG WALANG MAIPAKITANG PRUWEBA.

Kung hindi pa rin KAPAL NG MUKHA at KAYABANGAN ang tawag dito, kailangan natin ng bagong diksyonaryo. 30

PNOY'S VETO OF MAGNA CARTA FOR POOR IS UNACCEPTABLE

Unless it can be JUSTIFIED IN DETAIL, PNoy’s veto of the Magna Carta for the Poor is TOTALLY UNACCEPTABLE.

PNoy said the implementation of the Magna Carta cannot be funded by his government, especially since the rights of the poor to food, livelihood and others provided in the Magna Carta can be demanded by the less-fortunate.

I have not read the whole bill but I will dare say that the authors did not mean NOW or IMMEDIATELY, LITERALLY, when they used the word demand in writing the measure.  

As quoted by PNoy himself, the Magna Carta provides that “the government shall, as a matter of duty and obligation, PROVIDE THE REQUIREMENTS, CONDITIONS AND OPPORTUNITIES for the full enjoyment of these rights of the poor."

Meaning, it’s UP TO THE GOVERNMENT, and not to the poor, how to effectively, and comfortably, implement the Magna Carta.

  

Ano ngayon ang problema? Personally, I see two possibilities:

PNoy himself DOES NOT WANT the Magna Carta implemented. Or HE AND HIS BOYS ARE one big bunch of incompetents that THEY SIMPLY DON’T KNOW how to do it.  

If PNoy will say it’s the money:

If billions, of pesos can be readily allocated to the conditional cash transfer program despite the ABSENCE of a PUBLIC ACCOUNTING of the funds since Pnoy became president, WHY can’t the same thing be done for the Magna Carta?

How much money does the government have and how much exactly is allocated for pro-poor programs?

PNoy’s government HAS NOT STOPPED collecting all kinds of taxes and fees since they assumed power in 2010. And as I had mentioned in an earlier blog, add to these funds the billions coming from Pagcor, the PCSO and other state-run firms.

Plus government earnings from various investments here at home and abroad.

So, HOW MUCH are we talking about? And WHERE’S THEMONEY.

Remember, people, since PNoy became president, NOT EVEN ONE MAJOR INFRASTRUCTURE project has been funded, and finished, by his administration, 

Anybody correct me if I’m wrong.    

We are being bombarded lately with all kinds of ‘pa-pogi’ from the government --  billions and billions of pesos allocated or ready for release of this and that project;  tens of billions of pesos worth of investments or projects approved, and the like…

Tandaan n’yo, naglaan pa lang ng  pondo o ready pa lang kuno iyung pondo.  O kaya ay aprobado pa lang kuno iyung proyekto. Pero WALA PANG AKTWAL, o SINISIMULANG proyekto.

PURO KUWENTO LANG.

Ang MAGPAPABOLA sa gobyerno, pag nahirapan sa buhay WALANG KARAPATANG MAGREKLAMO. 30

BIGGER TROUBLE BEHIND THE MINDANAO POWER CRISIS

Don’t take the Mindanao power shortage and the possibility of election fraud or failure lightly. There’s something much more SCARY about it.

If it can happen to Mindanao, IT CAN HAPPEN ANYWHERE else in the country, where the chances of wining of senatorial candidates of PNoy are as WEAK, or WEAKER, as the odds against them in Mindanao.

Making the issue more SUSPICIOUS is PNoy himself first declared that there will be no power problem in Mindanao come the polls.

And the next day, in total contradiction of PNoy, the Department of Energy (DoE) can categorically say this early that IT CANNOT guarantee a brownout-free election Mindanao.

Question: Whose LYING between PNoy and the DoE? If nobody is, what made PNoy issue an apparently BASELESS DECLARATION on an issue as sensitive as the Mindanao power crisis?

Believe me, Pnoy and his boys won’t admit to INCOMPETENCE/

But more importantly, if the DoE can give a grim forecast this early on the Mindanao power crisis, what will stop I from giving similar forecasts for other areas in the coming days?

The power shortage in Mindanao has been a problem since PNoy assumed office, yes. And no similar crisis has been reported, yet, in other areas.

But keep in mind, guys, that the DoE, or even Napocor, can come up with a thousand and one reasons for a sudden loss of electrical power come Election Day -- sudden breakdown of a major component in a power plant, sabotage of transmission lines, name it.  

And anybody correct me if I’m wrong, there have been NO REPORTS OF PREEMPTIVE MEASURES, like systems checks or maintenance operations, among government power plants UP TO NOW, including Metro Manila.

Earlier reports said water is being stockpiled in Mindanao hydro power dams.

Question: What about the turbines and other machines in the dams? Are these being checked or repaired already if necessary? If no, WHY NOT?

ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN ANYWHERE on Election Day, guys.

Time for us to start RESERVING as many CANDLES and MATCHES,. FLASHLIGHTS,, mobile phone batteries and any other possible source of light, to help ensure the sanctity of the ballot. 30

POSSIBLE DIVERSIONARY TACTICS BY PNOY

One of my tried and most reliable sources of information during my media days has just revealed this:

PNoy and his boys are very seriously considering THREE TACTICS to DIVERT public attention and stop the  RAPIDLY SPREADING DISCONTENT of the people I his incompetent handling of the Sabah crisis.

First: PNoy will either suspend or fire a controversial and ranking government official or head of agency who is openly despised by the people, despite perceived or actual personal closeness to him.

Second:  PNoy will personally order the prosecution or any other tough legal action against influential and rich people from the private sector who are known to be close to him and are currently linked to controversial transactions or events,

Third:  A bloody and senseless act (s)  of violence wherein people will be killed and  wounded will be pulled off when we least expect it, with police and other law enforcement agencies surprisingly making arrests in record time.

In support of any of these gimmicks, my source said PNoy and his people, especially Cabinet secretaries, will BOMBARD us with press releases of supposed multi-billion peso projects or plans and purported non-stop accomplishments by the Aquino Government.

My source said PNoy himself is aware that his supposed popularity, as claimed by his crony survey firms Pulse Asia and Social Weather Stations (SWS), is not enough to suppress the public’s frustration over his undeniable incompetence in handling the Sabah crisis.

And unless discontent on the Sabah crisis is controlled,  my source said PNoy accepted in a recent briefing by his boys that it will take a MIRACLE for his senatorial candidates to win in the May polls.

Kaya’t HUWAG KAYONG PAPALOKO O PAPABOLA, mga kababayan.

WHATEVER PNoy and his boys say, the fact remains he has NOT DONE ANYTHING to stop the fighting in Sabah and the killing or wounding, and baseless arrests, of our countrymen there.

Nothing but TALK, TALK, TALK – settle the crisis through talks, aid for our detained countrymen, etc --- but NO SPECIFICS, NO APEALS for international arbitration, no plans for a dialogue between the Sulu sultan, Malaysia and the Philippine Government, NO NTHING.

PURO DALDAL, WALANG GAWA.

ANG HINDI PA MAGIGISING, walang karapatang magreklamo na mahirap o papahirap ng papahirap ang buhay 30