A reader from Bacolod City who
asked not to be named requested for a sequel after she read our blog “He’s only
after sex if ….”
Here goes:
Your boyfriend threatens to break up with you if you won’t give
in to his lust, while battering you with the cliché “Kung talagang mahal mo
ko, papayag ka sa gusto ko (If you really love me, you’ll make love to
me).”
After the first time, he now CATEGORICALLY DEMANDS for sex when
he’s hot, regardless of your condition or mood or priorities for that day.
Related to this, he requires you to begin learning more about
sex. I personally know of such a case guys, promise.
He starts openly or vocally admiring other women even in your
presence. If you protest, he raises hell.
He starts getting colder and colder after the first, second or
third sexual encounter.
The time he spends with you is getting shorter and shorter
following the sex. From being his top priority before, he’d rather be with his barkada
(gang) first than with you.
If there’s no assurance, or possibility, that your date will end
in a fuck again, you’ll need a miracle to make him agree to go out.
Worse, he’ll ask you to take along somebody else instead.
His paglalambing (sweetness) – holding your
hand, putting an arm around you, giving you a hug every now and then – is
vanishing faster than crushed ice.
He now does whatever he wants even if he knows you don’t like
it, and he had initially pledged not to do it.
He has resumed socializing with women without informing you.
Most of all, you’ll start getting word from friends that he has
been disowning you as his sweetheart whenever he meets someone new or flirts
with other women.
Bottom line, ladies: The moment you see even one of these signs
in your man after going to bed with him, confront him.
If he can’t give a convincing justification, BREAK OFF with him.
As I’ve written in one of my earliest blogs, in love follow your
heart, but use your head. 30
I got pregnant by my boss but consensual naman ung act. I guess if you say yes, choice mo na rin yun.
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